“I hope that young women know that sex is still a big deal, and they don’t have to put out soon. If they want someone to court them for a while before they give it up, that’s wonderful and beautiful, and a man will only respect you more for honouring your body. I am that way.”
So Gags is saying … what, exactly, here? That casual sex is bad? Sleeping with someone on the first or second date sucks? That a man won’t respect you after you sleep with them? What about young men? There are young men who choose to wait (or try to wait for the very same reasons), what about the idea of women pressuring young men to have sex before they’re ready? I am completely down with a man (or a woman) respecting you for honoring your body, but I’m still not quite sure where she’s going with this. I guess she could be peddling worse advice, though. There’s always that.
I think Sarah is putting too much thought into this and it has put her a little on the defensive. Gaga is not condemning casual sex, she’s basically just saying you don’t have to feel pressured to do anything before you’re ready, or if it doesn’t feel right.
I don’t see what is confusing or bad/judgy about Gaga’s statement.
What advice does she have for young women who have hormones?
Uhhhhh, something like, “It’s cool to keep that vadge in your pants, but for you guys out there, keep waving your dicks around!!!!!”. Couldn’t have agreed with you more Sarah.