For someone who’s had more pussy than the local animal shelter, Hugh Hefner doesn’t admire Jesse James or Tiger Woods for their marital infidelities — and not because they were caught.
Hefner speaks to Page Six and about Jesse James, states:
“When you get married, you make a commitment. I had a lot of girlfriends, but it’s not the same as cheating. I don’t cheat. I am very open about what I do . . . Sandra Bullock’s husband looks like a real creep. I think that when you are in a relationship, you should be honest. The real immorality of infidelity is the lying.”
When asked if Tiger can overcome his philandering ways, his words for the golf guru weren’t as warm:
” … But this whole idea that it’s a sex addiction is a copout. Some people become obsessed with sex, but it’s not like an alcohol or drug addiction. He did it because he could get away with it.”
Wow, Hef. I didn’t know you had it in you to be so … judgmental. I agree with what you’re saying, but then I can, because I’m not the one sitting in sunny California with mistresses stacked upon mistresses feeding me grapes and giving my boys (if I had any) Sitz baths.
But he’s right. None of his girlfriends, past or present, have ever thought they were the only one and were then blindsided by the fact that he was sleeping with ten other women. We may not agree with a man having five girlfriends, but at least he never deceived anyone on the level of these two scumbags.
Here here danielle, true dat.
Doesn’t matter if you have ten girlfriends as long as you are honest and upfront about it to all of them that thats your deal. I think it’s cool that hef has such high morals, I think it’s a great example of what to do if you want to be successful. Lying is the worst.
Say what you want about Hefner, but he’s always been honest with these women. They make their own decisions, they leave when they want, and they are aware of what’s going on the whole time. Whether they get their feelings hurt because they think they can change him, or they become jealous, isn’t something I feel sorry for them for. They don’t go into these ‘relationships’ with him blindly. Most of them get into it for their own selfish reasons.
The world could use more honesty, rather than pathetic, slimy men who pretend to be something they aren’t.
I agree with Danielle – he may be the ultimate player (and yes, it may be quite gross at his age in relation to the ages of the girls he has) but he’s never said to any of them that they were his one and only. Hell, just look at Holly’s efforts to get hitched to him.
Talking of – I kind of miss the three girls in the pic. Girls of the Playboy Mansion was never good again.
Team Hefner all the way.
I hate to agree with anything Hefner says, but in this case he’s absolutely right, especially about “sex addiction” being a cop-out. A number of people are making lots of money off providing “rehab” for “sex addicts.” Phony, phony, phony, all of them.
Cheating with one or more partner(s) when you’re married is not the same as needing repeated fixes of drugs one has become addicted to. To cheat or to remain loyal to their spouses, as they promised they would when they got married, is a choice people make whenever they encounter men or women who are attractive.
If people want to run wild sexually, they should stay single.
I love that he said this. I think he’s right in every particular, especially the bit about lying to your spouse being the really immoral part.
HAHAHA so I’m quickly skimming the first sentence of Hef’s statement and I’m like “hmmm…what’s a co-pout? Is it a some type of facial expression where you share a pout with someone, or is it like a new species of trout I haven’t heard of? hmmm…” and then I realize it’s cop-out. Ahhh, makes more sense now.
FUCK EM HEF !!!
FUCK EM HARD !!!
MAKE EM BLEED !!!
THEY ARE BEGGING FOR GRANDPA’S DICK !!!
GIVE IT TO EM !!!
GIVE IT TO EM !!!
GIVE IT TO EM !!!
I like how you have the word Lord in your name. He’ll have a good laugh with you about it too someday, just wait.
Wow, I’ve just got some new-found respect for this old geezer.
Love me some Hef. It’s going to be a sad day when he dies and we’re left with Larry Flynt to tell us about sexual morality.
You said it all already.
Team Hef!!
Holy shit. I actually kind of respect…. Hef now. He’s been pretty honest with the girlfriends and they all make their own choices.