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Davy Jones: Battered Man

September 15, 2009
Wendie
Davy Jones
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The Monkees’ Davy Jones married his post-mid-life crisis August 30th at her parent’s home in Miami.

The singer and actor is 63 years old and his new bride is 32.  None of his children nor his former Monkees bandmates attended the ceremony.  Age is the least of his worries.  Turns out, his new wife, Jessica Pacheco, likes to beat the shit out of him.

“Davy admits Jessica’s violent with him, but she’s drop-dead gorgeous and has clearly captivated him,” said a source who eyewitness-ed her hitting him. “He says, ‘It’s my life. I don’t want to be alone.'”

Exploding in a fiery rage, Jessica had “punched, scratched, kicked and bruised Davy,” explained the eyewitness.

“She’s thrown things at him. I’ve seen the cuts, seen the injuries.  And he never hits her back. He’s just the nicest guy.

“I have a journal she wrote, confessing to beating him. I’m keeping it to give to the police in case she kills him. She once cracked his rib with her shoe.”

Conditions had gotten so bad that Davy’s four daughters recently planned to “rescue” him from her, said the pal. But it never took place because the on-again, off-again pair temporarily split up for six months but then Davy shocked everyone with the sudden wedding announcement.

The pal fears Davy has closed his eyes to danger.

“During a cruise,” said the friend, Jessica exploded over an imagined slight “and got so psycho,  people had to hold her down.”

Why is it that the public reacts so strongly to a woman suffering at the hands of a physical abuser, but not a man?  I think there’s a perception that men are physically stronger, more able to defend themselves.  There’s no real defense for a bullet, however.  Davy could end up dead at the hands of this chick.  I hope he gets out … and soon.

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  • That bitch is crazy. How sad that he thinks this is even a marriage. What on earth would keep him wanting her, really people? The sex? I think he has some serious psychological issues and he needs help before he ends up hurt really bad. I hope we hear about their divorce soon

    • I hate to admit this, but my first thought wasn’t “how awful that one of my childhood crushes is being beaten by his wife!” but instead, it was “THAT is who he’s allowing to humiliate him?”

  • Well what keeps any person in an abusive relationship? Fear? Love? Past abuse?

    This is so sad. If you can’t get angry over a woman abusing a man, though what should really matter is that a person harmed another person, then maybe you can think of this as elderly abuse and rally behind him.

    At least it seems his family and friends recognize something is wrong and have tried to put a stop to it in the past. Hopefully they can try again and succeed in getting him out of this relationship an bring charges against her!

  • Give me three weeks to pop this baby out, then let me at that bitch! Abuse is abuse, and he is so tiny and always seemed so sweet – its like killing a fricking mockinbird!

  • this is so very sad… he is not a terribly good singer (and never was), but seems a nice person.

    seriously – do you really need younger pussy that much???

  • Whaaaat?? That’s terrible! He should go on a date with a nice girl like Holly Madison…and what the fuck is with her outfit? It looks like she just jumped out of a crappy department store catalog.

  • OMG!!!! Davy Jones was my very first crush when I was from 4 to 6 years old!!! My mom used to tell a story about me having tea parties when I was little with Davy Jones!!! I absolutely would give my life for this man, even to this day!!! I have always thought of him as the “White knight on a steed”!!! How could anyone hurt this beautiful soul???

  • This is ridiculous. I watched him on Scooby Doo and he wouldn’t let anyone treat him like this. I’m calling Fred and the gang.

  • When I first saw the picture I definetly sensed something wrong about it. I thought it was his daughter. I also had a crush on him when I was really little! He seemed so cute and chipper! Poor guy. I think a lot of people in abusive relationships find it VERY difficult to get away from the abuser because they have been brainwashed into thinking they cannot live without them. I have had too many friends in abusive relationships, one of them being male. And it was horrible no matter if the male or female was the victim. These people stayed in these relationships for YEARS and continued to suffer abuse. But eventually they end up leaving them and most of them have gotten out except one. How sad for Davy, I hope he can get help and get out of that situation!

  • I hope this isn’t true about Davy; he deserves better!! There are so many of us out there that would give him a great life; and make him feel safe and loved.

  • that fucking outfit she has on is abusing me right now!! fuck that bitch! i’m 100000 times hotter, and the only thing i’ll hit on ya davy is dat asssss…..word.

    no but seriously. fuck that bitch. davy. LEAVE. NOW. abusers get worse, not better. she’ll eventually kill you–don’t ask me how i know this. just get out.

    • please, don’t ever say you will tap a 70 year old’s “assss” again.

      anyway, i condone couples hitting each other but not if one of you is 100 years old damn girl. two 20 somethings? hit away.

    • OMG–you are just too funny. I agree, she’s a frickin witch. Leave her Davy while you still can. She’s just an abusive gold digger.

    • I know it is very upsetting that this may have happened to Davy. I’m praying it didn’t. If it did and Jessica is not sorry, God will deal with her. Believe that! He could have been with Paula Patton if she was into older guys. She’s only the sweetest, most drop dead gorgeous girl in the world. She and Davy definitely would have appreciated each other. Davy would have struck gold cause Paula’s a diamond mine. :)

  • Isn’t that the chick who’s banging Jon Gosselin?

    Joking aside, I hope someone jails the b*tch before something terrible happens. Abuse is abuse, no matter which gender levels it.

  • The same people who don’t care about women on men violence are the same ones who will scream about the brutality of men the minute he snaps and punches her lights out. I hope he does. He has the right to defend himself as do we all. Either that or I hope his kids kick the fuck out of her so she can see what it’s like.

  • why? and what would make Davy Jones think he would be alone? Is he really crazy too? He would never be alone. So many love him beyond words, yes I am one, I’m not a stalker or crazy person, but being abused in a relationship, I know how it makes you feel, and how you stick it out because the ‘good’ times and the “highs” are so great you just pray the bad and hurtful, abusive times are far and few in between.
    That is not the case, they just get more abusive, times are more frequent and they apologize all the time, until one day you have to realize it will never change. This woman, if the story is true, has issues and she does not deserve him.

  • So sad that a man would allow himself to be in this situation. No woman is worth a beating. He deserves someone that shows love and respect. This is not love but abuse. He should run not walk out of this marriage.

  • Well she looks like Bozo in her outfit, so she must be crazy. Guess we’ll be reading his obituary here later this year when she goes nuts and kills him.

  • Well, he needs to bitch-slap her! If he won’t, then his daughters should! He has four grown daughters. Two can hold her down and the other two can beat the crap out of her!!

    I mean, really. This man could have his pick of women. Hell, I’m available!

    I won’t hit you Davy! I’ve loved you all of my life!

  • I met Davy last year after a concert he did. She was there, too. We were at a martini bar down the road from where they had the concert. The owner of the theatre where they played also owned the martini bar so he invited everyone for an after-party and the whole band showed up. Davy was really sweet and funny and hilarious! He also got really drunk by the end of the night. He was just funny Davy like he was on the TV show! She didn’t seem like the abusive type but then again, they rarely do. But he was very nice to his fans the whole night. It was a really fun evening and if all this is true then I’m very sad for Davy because he is such a sweet and funny guy! He deserves better than this!

  • LOL.. well…she’s NOT that pretty.. and actually kinda fat. No one likes to be alone, but DAMN!! He can do WAY better!!!!

  • I saw Davy during the last tour he did with Peter and Mickey about ten years ago. He came out and spoke to the fans who waited after the show. Women kept saying such silly things to him like “I told my husband that if I ever left him it would be for you,” and he just chuckled and said, “Well, you’d better stay with him, then.” Another woman said how she loved him, and he said, “I promised myself that I would never say that to a woman again.” Apparently he had no intention of marrying EVER again. He was kind to his fans, and I just stood back and watched him; he’s a smooth operator! When he saw me standing apart from the bunch (waiting for a friend), he came over to me. I had no clue what to say to him and I wasn’t going to ask for an autograph, so I said, “I have nothing for you to write on, but I’m pleased to meet you finally.” He shook my hand, and kissed my cheek. He seemed to be a genuinely nice man and I hate to think of him being whipped (in more ways than one) by a “hootchie mama,” as we call them in the south. It seems so pitiful and sad.

  • Oops! Forgot one thing. His daughter Annabelle was with him on that tour and she was VERY protective of her father, weeding out people who said they knew him so they could get backstage. I hope her protective instincts (and those of her sisters) make her hyper-vigilant.

  • Oops! Forgot one thing! (Tried to post it, but it didn’t show up. I hope this isn’t a duplicate.) Davy’s daughter Annabelle was on that tour with him and she was VERY protective of him, weeding out people who claimed to know him in an attempt to get backstage, etc. I hope she and her sisters are hyper-vigilant.

  • So sad that a man his age will accept this kind of abuse. He should be sharing his life with somebody who REALLY cares for him. I always thought he was the cute one but I loved Mike’s lips. I didn’t like the hat. Now he’s a successful business man. Left all that Monkey stuff in the past. Smart man.

  • Davy can do much better than that. I don’t think this woman is attractive either. She looks sort of trashy to me. I listened to a recording of a radio show with a member of Davy’s band and the host asked the guy if Davy met his new wife at a strip club. LOL

  • It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who can do you harm…. Not just physically but mentally…..It’s not worth it! You can do better Davy. There are are lots of beautiful women in the world, not just outside but inside. How can you still think she’s beautiful after raising a hand to you? Where is your self respect? You’re a nice, handsome guy…….you can do so much better!!!!!!

  • Davy is and always has been a good man, what a nasty bitch his wife is …give me 5min alone with the cunt and she will know what a real beating is id put my foot so far up that bitchs ass ..she would have toes for teeth…….dump that worthless bitch davy you can do much better….anyone who hates horses aint worth no ones time. die you bitch die!!!!!

  • Davy..love…:0
    You deserve better..not some gold digging whore….
    I know you like the sex…but there are plenty of younger women out here that would give you that and more!
    haha hint hint!

  • RIP, Davy. Says it was a heart attack but I find it ironic what some of these comments have to say. I hope that’s not what happened.

  • Whatever the case he’s better off where he is now. I hope he wasn’t still money married to her and she didn’t benefit from his death.

  • She killed him one way or another. She was 30 years his junior.. Man’s got to know his limitations! Probably all that viagra / poison or the ass beatings she gave him. Poor guy

  • The radiation, especially Cesium-137 from Japan we’ve been getting for the past year gets in muscle and can cause heart attacks in even younger people, as seen in “Chernobyl heart” and now Fukushima heart attacks and child heart problems. Young and old are gonna keep dropping because the U.S. authorities aren’t testing the food so they can warn people about contamination. I think that plus the stress of the abusive woman, and trying to keep up with her sexually, may have done him in.

    I agree the comments on here were an eery prediction of his death. I wish she would have gotten charges for hurting him. And I really really hope she doesn’t get a big inheritance from his death. She was so mean to him from what I saw on the marriage shows. Wonder how she feels now, griping about where he put his towel or his spoon, demanding her breakfast in the morning, all that ridiculous spoiled behavior, now that he’s gone. The way she treated him is not the way you treat a 60-something-year-old man.

    He was my favorite Monkee. I had a huge crush on him when I saw the Monkees reruns in the 70s. What a gentle soul and sweet voice. We lost one of the good ones.

    RIP Davy.

  • monkeesforever: I didn’t know anything about radiation causing heart attacks. Who knows! Why should a pretty fit man of ONLY 66 suddenly have a massive heart attack? Something isn’t adding up for me. Sixty six is not old by today’s standards. He lived only 20 miles from me so now I’m having the ‘why didn’t anyone know enough to give him some aspirin when he didn’t feel well?’ and ‘If I knew he wasn’t feeling well I would have driven up there to help him….’ There is probably a name for this common reaction but it is still bothering me. I also had a huge crush on him in the 70s re-runs. Like, lying on my bedroom floor, sobbing into the carpet because I’d never have him.

  • YES. Thank you, finally, SOMEONE besides me gets this!

    IF it is so, that she cracked or even broke his rib, that right there would lead to undo pressure on the heart especially for a man his age.

    I have not felt right about this from the minute I heard about the death. I felt this even before I brushed up on their violent past history. Whoever has that diary, GO TO THE COPS, NOW!

  • One more thing: in my research yesterday, came upon many blog and forum entries made over the course of the 2011 tour in which fans were happy to report that Jessica and her cassanets had gone off the tour in July. They were further overjoyed to report that Jones’s wedding ring went AWOL at the same time.

    Could problems with Jessica be the reason that the tour went off? Also, the rumors went nuts in August that Dolenz was in trouble and was headed to rehab. Could he have agreed to take the heat off Jones, allowing the man to go somewhere quiet only he never made it to safety. His abusive wife managed to snag him again. Now he’s dead.

    Just wondering outloud. And, no, this is not libel. This is speculation over evidence that is public knowledge. If you don’t like me talking about it, your friend Jessica should have kept her fists, nails and shoes to herself in the first place.

  • Sue–it’s not weird. I thought of all of those things too. The wife was the first thing I thought of when I heard he’d died. When was the last time anyone heard of someone dying suddenly of a ‘massive’ heart attack in this day and age? Anyone who can afford to go for regular checkups would know if they were prone to something like that and be on preventive meds.

    • If it’s from radiation in an otherwise healthy person, there may be no warning sign, from what I am gathering. On Enenews.com, you can find anecdotal stories cropping up of healthy people (50s) having heart attacks, some with no warning, no pain, just sudden death. I truly believe we are going to see a lot more of these cases where people say “but he [or she] was so healthy, then the next day they were gone”. Same thing with sudden cancer developing and possibly killing the person.

      http://enenews.com/forum-possible-fukushima-related-anomalies-deformations-yellow-rain-metallic-taste-mouth/comment-page-7#comments – look at the posts around February 26 where people discuss all the people dying suddenly of serious diseases

      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E4Kkuo-IK-A – video from Dr. Christopher Busby on Fukushima and children’s heart damage from Cesium-137

      The levels of radiation in the U.S. are so much higher than with Chernobyl (and are being underestimated by possibly a factor of maybe hundreds, because there is no way with 3 reactor meltdowns, more fuel in them, 12 months ongoing emissions vs. 1 month mainly at Chernobyl, that the numbers are as tiny as they’re reporting), the Fukushima accident is not under control at all, and there’s no way it hasn’t gotten into a large portion of our food supply. Brain disorders, cancers, heart problems especially, skin/allergy problems, thyroid problems, and undiagnosed radiation sickness (many symptoms, especially nausea/dizziness, and others) are going to skyrocket. We won’t be told why, though. It will all be blamed on old age or a person’s lifestyle. Some of us will know better, sadly.

      I expect more celebrities to shockingly and suddenly start dropping off, around the age where old age isn’t enough to kill them under normal circumstances.

  • Add to that too, Dolenz’s first response to Jones’s death, that he’d been having “bad dreams” all night and woke up feeling that something was wrong. Could those dreams have been about Jones?

    I wonder, having traveled with the lady this summer, what might bandmates and roadies be thinking now?

  • Interesting…the remaining Monkees have been asked to stay away from the funeral.

    I can understand the family wanting to keep things quiet never the less, I find that even more of a “flag” of sorts.

    • Now, that’s weird. What in the world is going on? How could they keep his bandmates away?? They didn’t even say anything accusatory in their public statements, just sadness or resignation that Davy is gone.

      • Family, likely the WIFE…er, widow, claims it’s because the presence of the other 3 would ignite a media circus for what she demands to be a PRIVATE affair. Something is off, very much off.

      • That reminds me of how controlling she was, seems like she was always ready to get offended and wave her finger around as if Davy was some kid who had to prove himself. Did she even care about him? I realize it’s possible that was just how Jessica operated, and maybe Davy considered her just “sassy”? (I don’t consider the hitting part sassy or acceptable! Grrrr….)

        Has she made a public statement? Do we know for sure it’s Jessica’s fault the other Monkees aren’t completely welcome? If so, maybe it will mean it’s not all about her if they are there! The ones who knew him from the beginning and cared about him.

        Even Whitney’s family let fellow musicians at her funeral.

  • His daughter said he had a physical a month ago and had a heart of a 17 year old.
    Some paper made a point of saying the wife was “an hour away”
    why even say that?
    Ever watch the movie”black widow”?
    she offed her hubbies with digitalis…untraceable and gives you a big heart attack
    I wonder if she gave him his vitamins or meds that am?
    I smell something bad here

    • So do I. I only hope that local law enforcement or someone with the abilit to pursue this smells this too.

    • Ok, the first report had him dying in his sleep. The second, he died just outside the stable. Now they are saying that he was IN the stable!

      What’s next? In the poolroom with a candlestick with Colonel Peacock?

  • Jessica has tweeted, in spanish, on her twit account along the lines of AYYIII! Mi Hombre! My Support!

    Yeah, sugar, your support…

    • No, the tweet with “Ayyy :( Que tristesaaaaa :'( Era un gran hombre!! Apoyo!!” was someone tweeting support to Jessica:
      “Ohh :( How saaaaaad :'( He was a great man!! Support!!”

      Jessica herself basically tweeted, “My God!! Why do you do this to me? Why me?? Why him???” and with hashtag “I love you, my love”.

      Maybe she did love him. She seems really passionate about everything in general, so maybe she fought passionately and loved him equally as intensely?

      She did tweet a picture of him and her on September 11, 2011, with a caption: “Tqmm :)” meaning “I love you very much”.
      https://twitter.com/#!/JESSICAPACHEC0/status/110727241993949185

      That makes me feel a little better because at one point she did tweet a pic of herself with a male friend, “Con mi bellisimo amigo” (“With my very beautiful friend”). After that, I wanted to see she had sometime tweeted a picture of Davy, and I did. :)
      http://twitpic.com/6mr5xi

  • I wonder if Jessica wouldn’t want Monkees around, because that might mean more fans around? And she might be aware that a lot of fans aren’t happy with what they know of how she treated him? I doubt fans would heckle the girl at a funeral.That’d be an awful scene I wouldn’t want to see either.

    Davy was who he was, and the Monkees were a huge part of his life. The family can still keep it private and have them there. Although they are being gracious and ready to step out of the way.

    • Maybe she doesn’t want them to see the body…and start putting two and two together….

      Mr. Mortician; I hope you did your due diligence in the preservation of the evidence. Please, please, I hope you hit every vessel with a 38 index. Justice may move slow but it will move.

  • Sue—yet another story said he died at the hospital. Another said he was found dead in his car. Sheesh.

  • About 20% of me still thinks he’s alive and well and has run away from home. Wouldn’t that be nice? Sounds like denial.

  • Daily Mail reports that now wifey is having him CREMATED.
    There goes the evidence.
    Also, the funeral is now a “low key” memorial service!

    What an incredible bitch!

  • SueNomi or Lynne: Do you have links to articles mentioning him dying in those 4 places, by chance? (before they disappear)

  • Heads up! On another site like this, someone posted that the lady had been arrested while quite young for hooking and I don’t mean rugs!!

  • we saw davys shows at epcot for the last 10 years, he was a great man , she muscled in on a lot of his shows the last two years, made them not as enjoyable while she was on stage pratting around !! he was smitten with her but she just used him for fame and money !!!!
    we are going to miss him so much hope she gets what is coming to her and meets a man that beats the crap out of her !!! nothing like a taste of your own medicine,

    we went to a show at busch gardens and he was late on stage due to a massive argument she was having with him right before the show again giving him a good hit… stopped him stepping out with his fans to sing with them as he had done for many years !!!

  • Tracy,
    are there witnesses to that argument you spoke of? Every little bit could help at this point to start making a case.

    Sadly, I doubt that she will get a taste of her own medicine for some time. This chickie and her family would seem to be pros at this sort of game. I look for her to have a new “hombre” very soon.

  • I did not know they had been on Dr. Phil until after his death, so I got what I could on youtube. They made it seem so lighthearted–just typical couple’s pet peeves. But I kept wondering, “Does she not know who she has here? He’s DAVY JONES, for crying out loud! Millions of women would be thrilled to put up with a few quirks! Are you a total idiot, woman?!” I hope these conflicting reports are nothing sinister, just bad reporting. I can’t bear the thought that he suffered so much.

  • She probably had him stressed out so bad that his heart couldn’t take it anymore. Seemed liked he was a very healthy man, with riding the horses everyday and working on the ranch. Strange that she had him creamated so quick. She knows she caused this. Poor davy.

    • YES! That much I can vouch for. Per his autobio, “They made a Monkee Out of Me” there is a very touching moment in the book in which he talks of having purchased a plot next to his folks. Whenever he visited, he was in the habit of laying down on it much to the sister’s embarrassment!

      (also, same page; one time while trying out the grave, both of them heard a PA address coming from a local train station;
      “Calling Harry Jones! Attention, Harry Jones!”
      Harry Jones was the Dad’s name. Bewildered, they went over to the station…to find that it had been closed up YEARS before!!)

  • OK, well that’s a good thing. How sweet that he wanted to be buried near his parents! I must read his autobio now.

  • So my understanding is that davy did want to be buried or even cremated but in Manchester with his parents. It looks like yes he was brought there by Jessica BUT she brought him back to the states. He “rested” at his parent’s graves for awhile. WTH is that???

    • I am trying so hard to forget this saga but this here sounds wrong too! If he wanted to rest near his parents, why bring him back?

      Just when I was letting go, thinking it wasn’t Jessica’s fault he died (as in if Davy forgave her then why can’t I, etc), and that the Monkees didn’t attend for reasons unrelated to her, possibly (they had their own issues between them and Davy).

      Then this. This tops everything. Don’t let the townspeople attend the funeral (read it, who knows who was responsible for that), physically hit the man you claim to love, cremate him so there’s not a trace of anything left – but to not let him rest next to his beloved family like he wanted??

      Let go of his ashes, Jessica. He wanted to be with his family. Is that so hard?

  • Also, have you read where Davy tries to explain their bruises? She apparently had a black eye from a bad sunburn. Which I have never heard of happening. And he walked into a lamp post. Quite fishy. Plus when all four of your daughters don’t attend your wedding and then you take his cremains to Manchester for a visit but bring them back to Florida, well it just seems so weird.

  • I just saw this!!!! The Monkees star Davy Jones and his wife Jessica Pacheco were working to save their marriage in the months leading up to the singer’s death after she filed for divorce last summer.

    The couple wed in August, 2009, and the relationship appeared to be going strong, but newly-unearthed court documents reveal the singer’s third marriage had hit a rough patch, and former Telemundo soap star Pacheco had filed for divorce in Florida on July 28.

    According to the National Enquirer, which obtained a copy of the legal papers, the pair was ultimately able to patch up the relationship and Pacheco withdrew the petition in October.

    A source tells the publication, “Jessica filed for divorce in Florida last summer. And people noticed that Davy had stopped wearing his wedding ring… Around October, she cancelled the divorce papers, and for the last few months they were back together as a loving couple.”

    The I’m a Believer hitmaker died of a heart attack on February 29.

  • I hope that justice prevails. I believe Davy died of a broken heart.
    The abuse and violence that he endured and was witnessed by others I clouding fans at concerts is terribly disheartening . I truly believe that he felt like a failure from going through two divorces and did not want to ever fail at marriage again. He loved his ex wives dearly , never stopped loving them. They bore his daughters and tried at marriage and loved Davy in their ways until he died.
    He appeared heartbroken at times, yet allowed this birch to have her way , slapping him around throwing things and humiliating him on a cruise, they had to restrain her because someone made a remark about her conduct and she lashed put irrationally. Why is it that women are stood up for when violence has its way , and people just don’t rise to the occasion for men.
    Davy’s sparkle , sweet presence and voice in song will be forever cherished.

  • I hope she gets all that she gave out. Jessie dear, if you’re reading this…know how very much you are hated.

  • Just wondering when she will be taken too task, not if. That kind of behaviour and violence , especially towards such a gentle person will be left in avenged by the angels. She sure was is a hurry to cremate Davy, but slow to have a funeral or memorial.
    Mickey and Peter knew that and the press witnessed her behavior in the past and tried to steer Davy to safe harbor , by disaproving of her behaviour,even his own daughters tried intervening ,but he just couldn’t face failing a third time. Possibly thinking he was being punished for failing at the first two marriages.
    He couldn’t see past that the divorces were entirely his fault. He made statements in the past about those feelings to others.

    • What a Bitch…she was to him!!
      Just remember what goes around comes around…so she will get hers in the end!!
      Sooner than later we can all hope!!

  • What she has done is taken away Davy from his family not once , when they had a rather quick wedding, shortly after the daughters tried to intervening and get Davy away from her.
    But now , shows up with the ashes and takes them away from them again, back to Florida ? Her first name is Evil !

  • I wish that Davy would of understood that he was not too blame himself for the the divorces he endured , between the evil, violent behavior towards Davy from the Bitch , and his feelings of remorse , it appears that he died of a broken heart .

      • Me three!! I miss him!!
        He was to play in Vegas this year and I was going to be there at the same time…I wish he didn’t die and he would of re filed for devorce

  • In 2001 I heard him say to a small grouo of really ardent fans that “I love youu” was something he would never say again, in reference to his previous marriages. I wish hadn’t changed his mind, especially considering who he married and what she did to him.

  • Davy loved his first two wives dearly, but he was a bit of a loner.
    His first marriage he loved the solitude of the countryside so very much, and being with his horse. Racing as a jockey , the memories never left and he did race and was very good at it. I think he won a race in the 90’s and won !
    Divorce never came easy for him to swallow.
    His second marriage he said he loved her, but he married her because she became pregnant . He got her pregnant again hoping that would make the marriage better. It didn’t. Like a lot of people sometimes think, having a bond together such as children will make the marriage stronger and more resilient and will cause it too work. He followed his heart. Isn’t that what we should all be doing? When he married the evil Latino Bitch, he knew a glimpse of what she was like before he married her, and he was afraid of two things. growing older and alone or getting beat up by her.
    His daughters and people lose to his true heart, band members old and new from the Monkees, tried to open his eyes.
    I think his eyes were owned and he knew it was a raw deal with her. But when anyone is deeply convinced they are in love with the soul mate , no matter how evil they are, they are not capable of hearing the truthful bad news about their significant other
    Because they are on so deep. Social Services , the police department and neighbors who lived around and near Davy could of stopped her. What she did to him was destructive willful violence and mental cruelty. She could of been arrested , and charged ! Then I believe Davy would of seen the truth of his circumstance and left her flat on her ass. But that is what kind of action it’s takes to get the person too see clearly and don’t walk, run away and as fast possible ! The only reason we can talk about this so freely is because of freedom of speech !
    If Davy were a woman he would of been rescued in a heartbeat.
    But for some reason most of society just cannot fathom a man enduring and hiding the fact that he is being verbally assaulted and beaten within an inch of his life by his spouse or significant other. It’s abominable !

  • I still think she’s hiding something.
    A man cannot perish in 4 different locations.
    I just feel deep down Davy was upset and pass away in his car.
    They changed the story over again, even after people had come forward and explained where he was when he died.
    Why didn’t they take him to a doctor the evening before when he complained and said he had chest pains , anybody know ?

    • Also, after reading all 4 stories I put together that the pains started in the stables, then he went to his car, ended up possibly going in the house? And then he must have breathed his last breath in the hospital. It’s been a while since I looked at the details of this story, but this is what I remember. And I don’t want to look it all up again at the moment.

      I’m starting to wonder if, like with Whitney Houston’s death, a lot of hasty reporting goes on where people word things that eventually makes it look like several versions of the same story.

      Still, you’d think they’d make it clear the first time. Like I don’t know why the one article (one of his “agents” or some lady speaking?) had to make it almost sound like he really died in his stables when it seems the heart attack only started there.

    • One thing I wonder about is – was he in Jessica’s family house while having this heart attack? I need to doublecheck this.

  • I still firmly beleive that radiation contributed to his death. Cesium-137 causing heart damage and premature heart attacks, and all (especially in children – youtube.com/watch?v=E4Kkuo-IK-A). This is not a small factor, it can be huge when even low levels of radiation are taken in by the body over time. And heart attacks, as the video says, happen much faster overall than the cancer from the same poisoning.

    We’ve gotten radiation for an entire year from Fukushima and nobody talks about the dangers in the mainstream media. So a lot of premature confusing deaths are going to happen which lead people to try to find foul play where they may or may not be any. Or the foul play or aggravating factors may all result in a death where without the radiation, the person may not have succumbed so fast. If you do the research, you will see for yourself, but you have to do the research and not believe what our news is telling us (and not telling us).

    I’m not trivializing the abuse he suffered at Jessica’s hands, but I think he forgave her for it. I was initially very upset to read it. And I agree that his broken heart (and long-term stress of the relationship) may have contributed to his death, as happens with broken hearts. I don’t see her having directly killed him (plus she was an hour away), but I do think she took him for granted (and took advantage of him?) at least for a long time. And that was no way to treat an older man, yet he chose to marry her, unfortunately, knowing how she wa.

  • They sent him home? Do you think possibly Jessica coerced him into coming back home, so he would not say too much about why he thought he was having chest pains?
    An argument or fight could of brought it on if it was violent in nature. Then again when a person is abused and beaten within an inch of their lives many times over, hoping they are truly really , not unloved , that they feel a sense of worthlessness.
    She may of even hoped that it was something , because lets face it , he did have millions , her actions appear evil to me.I think they waited and let him suffer awhile, then summoned the ambulance. Then Davy’s daughters and those who knew and loved him well and the world itself lost Davy from this earth.

    • Hospital sending him home with chest pains:
      dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2108301/Davy-Jones-dead-Monkees-singer-dies-66-suffering-heart-attack-sleep.html

      You are right about abuse. It does tend to escalate. And part of my sadness for Davy in all this is the thought that such a gentle, beautiful soul, adored by so many as well, would feel worthless or incomplete without this abusive person.

      On the extreme end of this, one could wonder if someone put her in his path on purpose (remember how she came onto him that time at the theatre I think it was, wanting to make love to him, and he talked about his age). I’m not sure what motive they’d have – money? and money from post-mortem album sales? I noticed that Whitney Houston was singing “Yes, Jesus Loves Me” a couple days before dying, with Kelly Price in a club. And talked about Jesus a lot in those days. And she had talked against the money-grubbing nature of the business in 2002 and how she kind of walked away from Clive Davis. I don’t know that Whitney was directly murdered, but there are many sketchy things about that situation which is a long story discussed on other sites. What I do know is, despite her problems, she stands out as being consistent in her Christian talk (though some say she sold her soul, too).

      With Davy, it turns out he talked about God too, and recorded songs to that effect, talked about forgiveness, and one of his Christian records wasn’t accepted.
      blog.godreports.com/2012/03/davy-jones-davy-jones-free-a-tribute-davy-jones-of-the-monkees-clues-to-his-love-for-goddavy-jones-free-a-tribute-davy-jones-of-the-monkees-clues-to-his-love-for-god/

      So, not making a judgement either way on anyone’s beliefs in this post, but I find it interesting and with the way the world is going, one can easily get conspiratorial about whether Christians are being plucked off or let go of. Just more to think about. But honestly I think he died of radiation poisoning (as many are getting) and then all the stress of Jessica obviously had to be a major factor.

      In fact, if she was actively physically abusing him to his death, let the investigation and prosecutions begin! Because that has to be a crime.

      • I think that link is wrong, sorry. I need to look for the link to the mention of him at the ER night before. And I think Daily Mail got 1 or 2 facts wrong in that article, BTW.

    • I hate to say this but what if she was cheating on him and that was severely upsetting him? No accusation but I had to wonder, with the whole situation.

      • Cheating and wanting to be rid of him (but not lose out on his money?) could be a motive for foul play and/or abuse too.

    • Correct links regarding hospital sending Davy home:
      music.yahoo.com/blogs/stop-the-presses/davy-jones-good-humored-last-days-used-heartthrob-230101900.html

      nationalenquirer.com/celebrity/exclusive-interview-davy-jones-didnt-have-die – Hmmmm, from an interview with his daughter, saying he had chest pains in the “weeks before” he died.

      The abnormal heart rhythm they said contributed to his death – can be caused by radioactive cesium (as described in the video I linked to about Fukushima children’s hearts – same can happen in adults, though their hearts are of course smaller than adults’). Don’t coroners put “contributing factors” to deaths? Like for Whitney Houston, they put her cocaine use down (I don’t expect anyone to admit to radiation in anyone’s death if not in Japan, unfortunately, and they fail to acknowledge radiation deaths even in Japan).

      So for Davy, why not the physical abuse as a contributing factor? I hope someone is looking into this.

      • Er, if he had chest pains weeks before he died, then the article about the “two men in Jessica Pacheco’s life” seem to be even more eery, like it was predicting the next man in her life now that he was on the way out.

        The day before Whitney Houston died, Clive Davis referred to Jennifer Hudson as “the next Whitney”. Same eery feeling.

    • Oh, wow, that’s good to know. I didn’t know. I try to give people the benefit of a doubt in the gossip machine, but there’s no excuse for the abuse. It’s so sad to think he would have put up with this til the very end, I was trying to see the good in her even though my first impression was that it was maybe convenient to her in a way, that he died. I have doubts as to whether she was truly very torn up about him being gone.

      And the tabloids talking about the possible divorce makes me wonder if others are suspecting foul play or just wondering about her role in his death overall! I’ll keep watching. I really hope any foul play is discovered.

      And does she get the whole inheritance?? Do his daughters get anything?

    • I have to process this now. I don’t understand, what kind of person beats an older man? Modest, my *ss.

      Let’s see who she ends up with next, too.

  • Lastly, and I’m not trying to fuel hate against Jessica, because my general opinion is that she may have had a genuine initial connection with Davy, but probably had mixed feelings about him from the start, or after a while, and she tried to stay with him against her heart so ended up being kind of mean to him (plus being young, immature , explosive, and fussy about things), and that in the end she made a last-ditch effort to make it work, but then he died soon after that. It does bother me that she cremated him so fast, that local people weren’t allowed at the funeral. And it bothers me the whole ashes resting on the grave but being taken back to Florida thing.

    I hope Jessica does the right thing and puts him back by his parents’ grave.

    With regards to her wanting a divorce – it seems they appeared on Dr. Phil discussing marital problems on June 24 last year. Apparently that didn’t work since Jessica filed for divorce on July 28. Before I heard about that today, I’d already found an article posted February 16 by a local who’d gotten to know him, called “The two men in Jessica Pacheco’s life — Davy Jones and Jose Junco — and both her dance partners”.
    pbpulse.com/arts-and-culture/2012/02/16/the-two-men-in-jessica-pachecos-life-are-both-her-dance-partners/

    I think the headline is a little odd, considering the main man in her life was her husband. And it made it sound almost like there was a romantic rivalry. Was there? Was she looking for outside romantic fulfillment or a child with someone else? Maybe it was nothing. But to hear she was pursuing a divorce only months before confirms now my suspicion that Jessica may have been considering or engaging with another man. And on September 22, she posted a very long sad face on Twitter, and when asked by a friend said it was private things.

    Makes sense if she cancelled the divorce papers in October, that she may have been sad over a possible divorce. She also posted a picture of a man she called her “very beautiful friend” (twitpic.com/6mr5xi) around mid-September maybe September 15 (195 days ago from today- 6 1/2 months ago). Maybe innocent, she did seem somewhat modest and conservative. She was posting pics around that time of Davy too, in August especially a bunch of them including of their wedding and with loving captions like “My hubbie!! I loove you!” (my translation with all the captions). I think they were trying to rekindle things. But I just wondered about this picture of her and this guy and then the article on February 16 (just under 2 weeks before he died!) about the 2 men in her life made me wonder more.

    >>As a side note, did the Monkees even have the public memorial yet? I can’t find anything about it online!

  • Her brother was his manager
    He thought she was 15 when they met
    What if he had sex with her and she was under age?
    What if she was a dominatrix and the bruises were sex play?
    Then there’s the big One watch the movie black widow
    There’s a scene where she injects a bottle of brandy or wine with digitalis
    It causes a heart attack and is untraceable

  • I went to the memorial last nite…Peter and Micky were there and lots of friend,2 of his daughters were there too.
    It was all about saving his 16 horses……..ok……..wheres the money?
    Who got it all that the 16 horses have to be saved?
    She was no where to be seen and not mentioned………very strange

    • Ok, so the “hoax” about the horses that some got slapped about on some other sites is true!

  • Where was the memorial? In Florida? I would have gone. Well, his horses are here in FL anyway. What is being done for the horses? Are they being cared for?

  • yes…the memorial was at B.B.Kings in NYC
    all the money was to go to the Davy Jones Equine Fund for his 14 horses in PA,FLA,and Cali.
    they even passed a bucket for people to throw money into and raised 2500 bucks that way
    all the talk went back to how he loved his horses and had rescued horses from being destroyed
    2 daughters were there Thalia and Abegail anothe skyed in a message.
    the wife was not mentioned at all……
    so i would guess shes not talking care of them

  • Thanks, Diva. I am still wondering why, with Davy’s financial status probably being quite good, do they have to raise money for the horses’ care. And what is this about the horses being “slapped about?” Geez.

  • horses werent slapped …someone online mentioned before the PA memorial that the horses needed funds for care…THAT person was shut up even though they were in charge of the PA memorial….I guess they were waiting for the funeral and for the wife to get whatever she got from his will.And I guess shes not providing for the horses….end of story

  • A few things seem very off to me. Davy said he wanted to be buried in England not just in his book, but in public over the years. Then Jessica takes his ashes to England for a service with his daughters Anabel and Jessica who live there and his older sisters but the ashes are only rested on his parents graves for awhile a brought back where? With jessica? So odd! Also, I think she had something to do with Peter and Micky not permitted at the funeral. If you watch any footage from the bb king NYC memorial on YouTube Micky can hardly keep it together he loved Davy and grew up with him, and the family is very close to him, I think they would want him there. Also Davy worked his entire life and was devoted to his daughters and horses. So why did Anabel his youngest from the uk and talia his second oldest from Santa Barbara have to arrange a memorial for his horses? Sounds like they are now in complete charge of the horses care. Davy would have provisions set aside for his animals legally even in the event of an untimely death he wouldn’t do that to his kids or horses. I think Jessica is holding things up. Also no mention not even a message from her for the memorial! That is realllllyyyyy fishy. She is behind this. apparently his daughters passed around buckets pleading with the audience for money like this was a desperate time. They don’t want to split up the horses for Davy’s sake. A lot are rescued old and sick Who would take them? Jessica is mucking up the finances an controlling things, that is what I believe. Note she was not there pleading for money for these animals! She wasn’t even there in the form of a thank you note!

  • Shes his wife
    her brother was Davys manager
    both are involved in mucking it up
    he might have has power of attny

  • Talia has power of attourney but you are right about both Jessica and the brother being involved!

  • It appears there is no lost a drop of love lost , due to Davy’s death
    In concerns to how Jessica is feeling. She is most safe keeping her
    mouth shut . Once the she devil comes out of hiding playing the role of the widow for a spell. Her true character will come to light and the truth behind everything will surface to the water .ike the green much she is. Her brash yelling, screaming demanding and over bearing violent ways will never change. She seems comfortable being the person she displays.
    I doubt though even inside her mean little self , that she can sleep at night. Oh the tangle web we weave when we practice to deceive. It seems as though the good people who witnessed Davy’s last hours were quited….for now.

  • Is it just me (a typical loving Davy and the Monkee’s fan since childhood), or is everyone just sick and having a terrible time getting over Davy’s death? My heart just keeps breaking over and over again knowing that he is gone. I am just a middle aged fan that loved the Monkee’s and adored Davy. Oh God I pray that JP was not the only heir or an heir at all. This paychecko is suspiciously missing from the memorial in NYC and not a peep from her much since Davy’s death. His beautiful daughters are entitled to his estate and not that awful wife of his who filed for divorce recently. How could his wife have mistreated him as many articles and witnesses say? Yes the daughters seemed almost desperate to keep Davy’s beloved horses together at the memorial. They must have no funds to do this or why would they be asking for help? OMG if JP has delayed the estate distribution or has decided to not care for the horses, then she is pure evil, as she knew how much Davy loved those animals. My heart cannot stop breaking over the loss of this great entertainer and man.

  • The beauty part is, that if Davy really was abused and taken advantage of by his wife, then he is free now and either with God and the angels (if you believe in that, which I do) or he is just gone and at peace. His horses will be taken care of one way or the other. It is the living who are left here to suffer having lost our idol and teenage sweetheart. Until it’s our turn to leave this earth, we are left to hurt and to wonder and to wait…Davy is no longer suffering, which is a good thing.

  • Lover of Davy, you are right. I think Jo and her brother will trip .
    Mickey, Peter and Mike will follow through and guard what they can concerning the fund raiser for Day’s horses. The daughter ‘s have spit fire within them and I don’t believe they will allow the money to slip through their fingers and not benefit Day’s horses.
    The distribution of monatary gain through fundraisers is closely watch , moreso becaus of the misguided funds from the concert to assist Bangledesh ….remember George Harrison held a massive musical wonderment with many other musicians to aid the people of Bangledesh. The bulk of the money raised never got to Bangledesh. George was devastated and felt used and was devastated by individuals who took money that was not intended for their use. The United States has since kept an eye out for the general public and protects the funds and people involved with fund raisers of this magnitude.
    It is difficult for a simple fan like myself and others to be patient and wait to see the results of efforts towards spreading good actions , like raising money for Davy’s horses and witnessing his estate going to the people for which Davy intended.
    Sending out prayers and live to people who are trying to straighten out this horrible situation is the best I can do.
    I miss Davy and I believ as Lynne does he is at peace and is with God in heaven. Let’s get happy and keep his memory alive, with the things he loved most, his family, fans, animals and yes his MUSIC !

  • My iPad is a little slippery , I am sorry about the misspellings.
    It also needs to be serviced and the spelling modem must be fixed. I am in the hospital n Hawaii and I use my iPad to communicate. This is a great forum !

  • It’s my understanding that the reason they need to raise money for the horses is that Talia had the will sealed (highly unusual in Florida). Some of the younger horses have already been moved to a ranch in California where the daughters can more easily care for them.

  • I agree I believe that Jessica Pachecho is EVIL!!! My prayers are with David’s family, I hope she doesn’t get a penny!!

  • and now at 66 DJ is dead,more than likely from the stress of being w/this nut! DJ could have done much better & even had somebody that loved him!!

  • I believe he deserved better than being someone who was violent to him. I can’t believe he wanted to live his life like that.

  • I can’t believe Davy would be so foolish to marry this evil young woman. If he had married when he was a lot younger she would have ruined his million dollar good looks.

  • Wait…was there an autopsy performed…there is a seed almost undetectable called risen it is a teeny little seed and when given in gradual ongoing doses it is lethal..also there is another almost undetectable poison or she messed with his meds..oh if she had access to mere insulin it wouldnt necessarily show any oddity blood sugar levels signs of unconsciousness during a heart attack are similar..holy shnikies..i hope somebody does it..not too late..cremation isnt the end all as it was even 10 years ago..forensic researchers scientists are brilliant and give victims the final say even dried sweat on an old shirt..skin cells combs brushes my wife said toothbrushes show systemic abnorms through saliva and skin cells even brushing a tiny bit of blood.my first suspect wife esp chronic abuser..for sure if he was in his vehicle he would attempt to get help..did he have a cell phone..did she make any calls prior to and during..so many questions wish i could work on this case..if she didnt do it she got someone else to. my wife said she wouldnt bring in anyone else because she derives such a pleasure from beating him. you dont need to press charges the cops will automatically arrest and charge someone with abuse