This marriage is totally done for. I called it like a year ago. Someone better hurry up and option the rights to Jon Minus Nine, because it’s happening any day now.
After Jon Gosselin was spotted leaving a night club drunk, wedding ring-less and calling a non-Kate woman “babe,” National Enquirer is running a story about yet another cheating scandal:
In what could be the kiss of death for his family show, Jon & Kate Plus 8 star Jon Gosselin was caught kissing a beautiful young brunette at a motel hideaway, The ENQUIRER has learned exclusively.
The celebrated TV dad was spotted by a security guard April 18 at a motel only a short distance from his 26-acre Pennsylvania estate.
David Reitnauer told The ENQUIRER he saw Jon kissing the woman at the top of a side entrance stairwell on the second floor at the America’s Best Value Inn.
“It didn’t look like a friendly kiss. It looked like a romantic one – it lasted for about 10 seconds,” disclosed the guard.
Now, listen. I feel just awful for the kids involved here. I love every last one of them, and I love Kate for being a good mother to them. (Yes, that’s right, I said it. I think Kate Gosselin is a good mother.) But she is absolutely the wife from HELL. I cannot imagine being married to that woman; it would be worse than the part of dating Hef where you have to put his penis inside you. I cringe for Jon when I see her on TV, ripping out his balls for the entire country to watch. I don’t blame him one bit for wanting to get away from her. It just sucks that there are SO MANY kids involved. I’m sure Kate’s learning a very important lesson right now about letting go of control and letting life unfold as it may — it’s just sad that the kids have to learn it this way, too.
I’m sorry but this is KATE’S fault!? I totally agree that she is a control freak and that it would take a very passive type of person to be married to her amidst eight kids, but in no way do I think that this is her fault. It is totally JON’S fault for cheating on his wife and ripping their family apart. The last time I checked when he said “I do” he was agreeing to be faithful and devoted to his wife. I really don’t like the spin of this article.. “poor kids for having their father be a total asshole and cheat on his family” … and “bitchy kate had it coming.”
Wow. This is the first time that I’ve rooted for a cheater.
I know, I kinda feel dirty…but not. The scar tissue on his sack is spouting pom poms.
ALL the kids? even the bitchy twin?
Mady.
And since when has the Enquirer been trusted?
I know. I was thinking the same thing about the Enquirer. I don’t believe one word they say.
I agree with you. See is a good mom, but as a wife she is perma-bitchy.
Even though I feel bad for him, being publicy humilliated all of the time, I still hate to hear that he is cheating. Their kids are too cute.
I have to disagree. I don’t think she is a good ANYTHING.
I find her to manipulate to get her way, degrading, unappreciative, and am grateful the family has moved out of Lancaster County.
Before the show was HUGE, Jon would bring a kid or two into the mall and they would shop.. they would allow people to come up and meet them, he was a nice man when I met him, he was with Kara and Aaden both of whom were adorable and shy, but since the show took off, you might see him but VERY seldomly and NEVER alone.. he always has an assistant or something with him. Punk. JMO!
It’s a shame that one controlling woman directly affects the lives of so many children. I do NOT blame any man for wanting to get away from a woman who is that difficult!!! Now, he is a coward for not coming clean with Kate, and explaining why he is searching for “warmer” company. He probably doesn’t want to have to face her wrath for leaving!!!
I am just sorry for the kids, because they did not ask to be born. I think they BOTH are kind of insane. She’s obviously a control-freak, and no one can handle that. I guess that’s what you become when you have 8 kids. But he’s an asshole too. He never helps her. He always runs away, he never cares, and a father shouldn’t do that.
I think this story is going to end with a huge divorce demand, and that is truly sad. The only ones that are going to suffer are the kids.
OMG! Jon is LAME!!
How can you call a woman who is gone up to 3 weeks a month a good mother? Kate is out selling her ‘book’ most of the time. (Stay At Home Mom? LMAO!) The not-a-nanny(s) is a better parent to those poor kids – and it’s likely she/they knows them better than Kate does.
BTW, Mady is not a ‘bitchy’ twin – she sees her mother get away with that behavior so she emulates her. Most kids mimic their mothers; Mady just got stuck with a bitch of a role model.
Jon needs to get his shit together and then look for his cohones. I know Kate took them a long time ago but there’s still hope.
Children are not ducklings. They don’t just mimic, they have their own personalities. And they are perfectly able to attach to a father, nanny or other caregiver. Mommy isn’t everything. Thank god!
I have not watched a lot of this show and what I have watched was early episodes. That said, I always thought HE was the asshole. I remember him saying how gross his wife looked pregnant and afterwards and you know what? Maybe she did, but that is an occasion for “Shut the fuck up” if ever there was one. I also remember him seeming to never want to do anything without having to be told over and over. Maybe she’s controlling and bitches at him because if she didn’t a household involving 8 children(!!!) would fall apart.. My 2 cents. Oh, and he’s a total cunt for cheating anyway. After someone has 8 of your kids, ruins their body and devotes herself to looking after those kids, you better just fucking settle in and put your dick away.
Watch the show more. Your opinion will most likely change.
AGREED.
You need to watch the show, the one or two things he say are nothing like the way she talks to him. She embassy him everyday, I would leave her to. She ‘s not that good of a mother, she just controlling
I was wondering how long he would last with kate. it just seemed that shes a great mom and then around adults she treats him like dirt.
For some reason, I am just intrigued with this couple even though I never watched the show. So of course I had to google and find out all the dirty details. My favorite find is a clip on “The Soup” where Kate just is HORRIBLE to to Jon (It’s bordering on emotional abuse, I think!): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IATr2I2VgSY
WOW! I do not blame that man. I mean, he’s being a total sleaze but I think he’s stuck in a situation that he doesn’t know how to get out of.
Thanks for that. I hadn’t seen it mainly bc I like the show, I like the fam, but I cannot get over the way she treats him.
Courteney you said it!!!!!
This IS Kate’s fault. If she was not such a cunt and face it, a BAD mother, then Jonboy would not be off screwing another woman. Kate is the poster girl for a complete bitch that uses her kids for money. I am surprised that she does not have a website that you pay for, just to look at her naked children. This is how sick that twisted freak is. Kate deserves to be cheated on. She sucks a a mom, sucks as a wife, sucks as an animal owner and sucks as a human being. I am surprised it took Jon this long to cheat on her fake orange ass.
Jon is a complete loser too and responsible for exploiting his kids, but living with that nut would drive any man to cheat.
“I am surprised that she does not have a website that you pay for, just to look at her naked children. ”
WWWWWOOOOOWWWWW
Wow….. I’ll just pray for you.
I’ll sacrifice a virgin for you! Seriously, it isn’t all Kate’s fault. Jon is an adult– or supposed to be. If he is unhappy he should have just LEFT THE MARRIAGE, but no, Jon likes the attention and wants his cut of the Gosselin fortune.
National Enquirer? grain of salt. well, like whole shaker of salt.
I find it hard to believe that kate was all totally normal and not controlling before they got married. If you don’t want your balls busted, don’t marry a ball-buster
my friend’s sister goes to this university where he was giving a speech and she told me they weent out to a bar afterwards and he got drunk. thats where this picture was taken. she also told me that jon told the girls he was out with (my friends sister) that he and kate are already divorced and he just goes over the house everyday to help out.
hope that made sense
lol. that line is how married guys get laid! “we’re divorced i just go over there every day to help out…”
Can we PLEASE note the source here: NATIONAL ENQUIRER!?!
Before we start another insane Jon and Kate plus 8 thread, let’s just toss this aside as a bunch of bullshit made up by the media.. and unfortunately run by beet in order to increase traffic.
hahaha to the person who said, “even the bitchy twin?”
that was funny.
this whole situation is sad. i heard that a reporter friend from cnn saw kate walking with a man in atlanta recently and it was not jon. who knows, but it sounds about right that they are already split. the last episode (the green episode) — it did seem strange and tht jon seemed like a visitor in his own house and the kids weren’t the same either.
sad, but i thnk their marriage is done for. and , so is that show…because i think they will realize that the kids are going to be negatively affected now…
walking with someone is the same as having an affair?
She’s eight-years-old, give me a break!!! I can almost tolerate talking badly about someone who is an adult, but an eight-year-old? Completely inappropriate.
Haha… Jon looks totally blazed in that pic. Yikes!!!
I guess she really did drive him to drink. And damn, I hate this show with a fucking passion.
i do agree! kate treats jon like shit :|
“Jon Minus Nine” = genius.
Jon Minus Nine was coined by Joel McHale on The Soup and was presented with a graphic of him windsurfing
How long will it be before Dr. Phil books them on his show?
Like i said before, i don’t think anybody deserves this, even if they’re the wife from hell.. And i feel so sorry for the poor guy, because i can just imagine what Kate has to say about this, and what she’s planning on doing about it.. LOL.. I can’t wait!!! She’s gonna make him pay BIG time, and i’m gonna love it. I don’t like cheaters.
By the way, did anybody watch the view today? with that guy talking about a site called ashley madison, and it helps married people find more married people that wants to cheat on their partners? it’s not even funny!!! here’s the commercial they showed on the show:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahPsgo5_pbE&feature=channel
“Life is short, have an affair” ????? What the fuck is wrong with this people?…..
I have heard the Ashley Madison commercials on Sirius radio. I was completely shocked that such a site even exists!
GOOD! There isn’t a man alive who could live with that psycho woman anyway. Maybe SHE’LL be paying him alimony for mental abuse! LOL
I’ve got to be honest…. this may be a direct result of his frustration with Kate, but EVERYTHING Jon says has a hint of venom in it whether talking to her or the kids. He seems pissed off all the time and seems to take it out on everyone. I have grown tired of his voice on the show. Makes me tense.
That woman is an idiot. First of all, she has PCOD…this is why she needed help getting pregnant. She only tried naturally for a few months. She then went the “intrauterine insemination” route. They got married in June 99, she got pregnant in Feb 2000. She was impatient. It takes completely healthy women anywhere from 6-12 months to get prego…sometimes longer! Had she waited to get pregnant naturally, she would’ve eventually and she wouldn’t be stuck with 8 fucking kids. Don’t get me wrong, kids are a blessing – but do you really need 8? She’s calculating and manipulative and she plotted this whole scenario.
She’s a stupid cunt and I can’t even watch the show without being embarrassed for poor Jon. He’s a young dude…he’s been stuck with that evil beast since his early twenties. Matter of fact, he met her when he was only 20. I don’t blame him one bit. I’m not making excuses for him but she brought this upon herself. I hate bitches like that because they ruin it for the rest of us good women. If they’re all ready divorced, then TLC needs to clear this shit up. They bill this garbage as a reality show…keep it “real”. Oh and Kate – go fuck yourself!!!
meh, i don’t like these people. and of course those twins are bitchy, wouldn’t you be if your mom decided you and your twin sister just weren’t enough and had 6 more kids all at once? the twins are living in the shadow of the others, and no one can give 8 kids all the individual attention they need. these people are just selfish and in it for the money.
I totally agree with you on the money part.. I still cannot believe they have a house worth 1.3 million dollars….
The bitchy twin is just like her psycho, bitchy mother. Who could blame Jon?? Kate is a huge turn off with that stupid haircut, control freak attitude, OCD and pscyho behavior. Run Jon—as fast as you can!!
I love it! I hope the rumors are true and they divorced. That way Kate can find a new vegetable to belittle and Jon can get some counseling. I would LOVE to hear from some of the hens that absolutely LOVE Kate and think she hung the moon.
Missy, oh where are you? Perhaps finishing your third carton of Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream???? Eating a baby????
I don’t know either one of them personally, but maybe this has been going on with Jon longer than anyone knows and that is why Kate acts like that toward him. He has no right to cheat though. If his marriage is unbearable, he needs to be act decently and either get counseling with her or get out, not make matters worse. Also, someone remarked on the “bitchy twin”. I think that little girl is tired of the cameras in her face. There is no privacy and nowhere to get away from them. These kids have no say about being part of this show. I think Jon hate the showbut Kate wants it because of the money. They need to figure out what is more important. Ultimately I’m afraid that greed usually wins out.
So… You’re trusting National Enquirer’s information?
p.s. new season of Jon & Kate Plus 8 starts Memorial Day.
Also, did anyone ever think that there are probably a lot of people wanting autographs and pictures with Jon? Couldn’t that just posibly be the reason for these pictures? If anyone with anything bad to say about this EVER watched a single, full episode of the Gosselin’s show, I think they’d know better than to assume Jon could even do something like that to his kids. Honestly, he’s a good father, for heaven’s sake just leave the poor guy alone.
How on earth do you believe Kate is a good mother, or that either of these two should be raising those 8 children? They have profited and exploited their children for everything they are worth since the day they are born and now don’t work as they are completely dependent on their children’s work to earn an income. Yes, it is work, seeing as Kate claims that her and John work by doing the show which is their job. Therefore, it is also their children’s jobs, who are the ones that made the show possible. How is it a good sign that these two parents quit working just to do the show? She acts like they have no money so sponsors will continue to send them freebies and give them free vacations, she acts like she does everything yet the days the cameras aren’t rolling she has a maid service and they have a personal organic chef and the Gosselin’s have managed to alienated their own family and deprive their children from having those relationships along with the other lists of nonsense perpetrated by these two. Those poor children are going to need therapy once this is done. If you don’t believe me, read up on other multiples raised in the media and see how they turned out. If this was the state of California, these children would be protected. JON AND KATE ARE NOT GOOD PARENTS, PERIOD.
How can you people say such horrible things about this family??? I know it’s the internet, but calling a woman a bad mother, and an 8 year old a bitch?? How would you feel if you were called a bad parent, or someone called your child a bitch?
i totally agree with you. none of this is the children’s fault leave them out of it. the children was not asked to be born. so none of this is any of their fault. let’s stop the name calling on the children. as for the parent’s you can say what ever you want they can defend for themselfs. the children can’t. i really don’t know what to believe, but i do know kate is a control freek. and i don’t even like her for that. i don’t even like how she treat’s jon. it is jon and kate’s problem, and NOT THE CHILDREN’S PROBLEM. LEAVE THEM OUT OF IT.
I have GOT to watch this show. Come on channel 10!!
Sorry Liz but the truth hurts. Kate is nothing but a media whore who would sell her kids for any amount of money. She comes across as a cold, evil bitch and I don’t think anyone can blame Jon for straying. Money is Kate’s first love—she’s made that perfectly clear. She’ll end up old and alone as the kids will see her for the bitch she is when they get older. And something is very wrong with that evil twin–the girl has serious anger issues already.
Quit defending these morons. They got themselves into this. The Enquirer may not be the New York Times, but where there’s smoke, there’s usually fire. PR stunts and damage control can only go so far. That rag has obviously picked up on something. Besides, if the tabloid stories are wrong, Kate will surely go after them and sue. She’s all about the easy money.
I know National Enquirer is like a smut tabloid, but um, they have broken MANY stories. Sorry I’m drawing such a pathetic memory here, but really they have, mainly because they pay and they hound, but still, they do break a lot of stories…
beet – is blaming the wife for a cheating husband part of your “feminism”? seriously – that is bullshit! i agree kate is a maniac and i couldn’t spend a day with her without smothering her with a vacuum bag, but jon is an adult, and adults take responsibility for their actions. if he is that miserable in the marriage he should have stepped up and told kate he wanted a separation. there are many ways to deal with an unhappy marriage – cheating is not one of them, especially when there are children involved. it is his fault and no one else’s, but as long as people make excuses for the cheater he or she will continue to cheat.
You can tell Jon and Kate have been seperated a long time, they just want to keep making the money from their show so they “pretend” to be a happy family when the cameras are their
I think it’s Jon’s fault because Kate wasn’t even at home she was in WA
state. And he left his kids at home by them selves.THAT’S JUST IDIOTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE IS SUCH AN IDIOT!!!!!!!
I am absolutely certain of one thing. Jon did not leave those children home alone when he went out on April 18. They do have a nanny even though she is not seen on screen. I am sure that he left someone with the kids.
As for the rest of it, Jon is cheating emotionally if not physically, and I wouldn’t be surprised if Kate is too. If you watch the last season, you can see a marked change in their interviews. kate has always been bitchy to him, but The last few episodes of Seasn 4 showed an obvious rift between them.
in the eary days of the show, they were a young and struggling couple with a lot of children, but you could see that they loved each other. Now, that has definitely changed.
The show could go on with just one of the parents since the kids are the stars. They could even do alternate weeks or something. there are a lot of kids in the world with divorced parents who do just fine in life. BUT one of the keys to that is the parents remaining civil if not friendly to each other and encouraging a relationship with the other parent.
I wish them luck and happiness wherever that may lie for them.
Kate always slams on Jon, she nitpicks on everything that he does, argues with him in front of the kids, and always believes she is the only one that is right and you can SEE it. Jon tries to compromise with her, makes suggestions and plans without any sort of aggression and Kate just snaps on him. I get that you have 8 kids but for Kate to point it out every time as an excuse for her nasty attitude is just sick. Also she is always spying on her children to make sure they “don’t make a mess”, she is so paranoid about her kids cleanliness its creepy.
I am not going to pick sides, I think Jon has to have some responsibility as well with how he deals with his wife pressuring him, he has no control and he pussies out and lets Kate mouth him off and runs away to fool around. Both of them are to blame.
hahahaha I think I’ve said before what I think of that c*nt Kate. If they do get a divorce I think it only fitting she gets total custody of all the kids.
the people who passionately hate Kate scare the shit out of me. It’s shocking that people think they “know” a tv family so well. Y’all need to pop a valium and chill the fuck out.
i watch jon and kate have from the start ,but we over here r not up 2date yet with wot ur watching,all the people calling children evil its not on but i agree kate has 9 kids,jon should open his mouth if he dosnt like being treated like the 9th kid.hope the storys r not true .comeing over 2 the us later this month hope 2 find out more about this
Seriously people who want to say negative things about Kate… Try raising 8 kids and being married to a man who isn’t much better than a teenage boy. People who want to judge her obviously have never had small kids! She has to take control so stop calling her a control freak. That is what makes her a good mom to 8 kids. There is no excuse for what he is doing right now… I hope you guys who bash her are blessed with 8 kids and a roaming husband someday. I’d love to watch your show to see how YOU handle the pressure.
Oh cry me a river! Control freaks should learn to share- otherwise they reap what they sow. She has EIGHT kids she could care less about. She’s off screwing her bodyguard and/or spa-ing it up day after day. It’s all Kate, all the time and it’s all Jon for Jon all the time. The kids are stuck in the middle. I can’t wait for the kids tell all book and movie to follow. “Katie Irene Dearest” is what I think it will be called. Or maybe they should just name it “My CUNT Mother”
Two disgusting pimps who have sold their children’s childhood. Now the kids will have something to be embarrassed about. Imagine going to school and having all the kids know your Dad’s a cheat and your mother is a psycho. They have put money first since day 1. Kate can’t stand to be around the kids. She only liked them when they were babies. I really feel sorry for those children. I hope they write a tell-all book about them when they grow up.
I’m sorry but I don’t think Kate is even a good mom. People who have seen the show being filmed say that she only interacts with the children while the cameras roll. She treats the kids just like the fans unless it’s being shot. She palms them off on the helpers and the not a nanny full time caregivers.
Since they’ve been separated for months, I can even cut Jon some slack for dating. A lot of people think once the marriage is dead and you’ve separated that it isn’t really cheating. I’m not one of those, but I can see the point.
Turn off the show. These are not parents, just beggars with a lot of luck.
She’s a controlling bitch… he’s a wimp. They deserve each other but the children need neither one of them. Their neighbors and ratting them out in the hopes of them moving out faster… watch for it!
I hope the rumors aren’t true because those kids are going to have enough of a struggle to grow up and live “normal” lives without their parents’ relationship falling apart.
By the way, has anyone else wondered if Jon really had a say in not reducing the number of embryos once they found out how many Kate was carrying? I think Kate’s talked about how she wanted to try to get pregnant again much sooner than Jon did (after the twins, that is). Somehow Kate seems to get her way. I’m not saying Jon is justified if he’s cheating because he was browbeaten into having five more kids than he wanted, just that I could understand it better if that were so.
Regardless of what happens to this one family, I sure hope we can have a dialogue in this country about how much love and attention one individual child needs to grow up secure and happy, and that we make laws that force people who use fertility treatments to reduce the number of babies they have at one time (say, no more than 2) for the well-being of the children.
Reduction is abortion, and a lot of people are against abortion. We know that they’re religious, so they’re probably against abortion.
And forcing a woman to have an abortion is IMMORAL and ILLEGAL. You can’t tell a person how many kids they can or cannot have.
I find it hilarious that they’re “against decreasing the number of fertilized eggs” because it’s not natural. Um, funny story, but going through IVF isn’t NATURAL either. If they were all about going with nature, she wouldn’t have ever gotten knocked up in the first place. Maybe she should’ve taken the signs and accepted the fact that having children wasn’t in the cards for her. Maybe it was for a freaking reason because she sucks as a person and especially as a mother.
I dont agree with cheating whatever the circumstances. If he isnt happy they should separate or divorce. They cant stay together in a sham marriage just because they have 8 kids together. Im sure that now they can afford to hire help and live separately.
I would like to see what its like when the cameras are off before I judge. I know it will never happen, but still. Just remember that they are always putting on a fake front in front of those cameras, whether it be a bitchy one or a nice one.
How come there are no pictures of jon “making out” with someone else? The pictures that leaked are definitley not serious..they look like fans. Jon has a life and he can do what ever he wants. He made a mistake but they are not going to get a divorce I can pretty much gaurantee.
Are you stupid? They are FANS…. And Jon was just taking pictures with them. Get a Life and gossip on your own family ok?
Jon and Kate + Eight heads to the Dr. Phil show
Jon & Kate, You two have promised to be in this for the long haul, your kids did not choose this life. It’s up to the two of you to make this work for them no matter what it takes. Jon, if you were fooling around, shame of you, you should know better. Kate, you do not need to go all over the States to push your books, to “Hell” with it. If it means the family being together then stop this now.If the books are that good then the word will get out there without you being absent from the family. You say your kids are the most important thing in the world to you, then stay home with them.What about Jon, isn’t he important to you. He used to be.You do not hollow out to him ever, especially in public, and you do not talk to him like he’s some stupid hired help.That’s what it sounds like.
Listen folks,I love the show, the kids and the two of you, but you have to work on your relationship, have courtesy and kindness for each other, after all it did start with the two of you. You would not have the 8 kids if you didn’t have each other. Through good times and the bad times it is worth saving. Don’t, do not give up. Throw all your prayers up to the Lord, sincerely giving your heart over to Him and He will see you through this. There are so many people that have giving of their time to help you with the kids, they were so generous in giving their love and support to you and even now when you need help their out there to lend you a hand. You owe them, your kids, and most important, You Jon, You Kate,need to step back and look at what you have, 8 loving, healthy, happy kids, but most important you need to give each other YOUR HEART again and build your feelings for each once more.Be patient, be kind, be giving, and the rest will come if you truly work at it.It might mean that giving up the show to strengthen your marriage and truly be a family again.
Good luck to the both of you and give it all you have.
I’m a wife of 53yrs. a mother to 4 Great kids, all grown and have giving me 10 grandchildren and 10 Great Grandkids.
This is the Very Most Important time in your life, do not treat it lightly.
If you care for the kids, like you say then give them the two of you.
Sincerely and God Bless You Both,
Beverly
hi i feel bad for mady,cara,alexis,collin,adden,joel,hannah and leah because its un beleivable that they have to go though this kind of toucher and there both good parents but jon shouldent be gettin drunk and going out with a 23 year -old teacher and kate shouldent be going out with there bodyguard its just the kids dont want to stay with there mom and then dad then mom and dad agein they want to have there mom and dad watch them togeather and jon shouldent have bought a car with out kate knowing and letting the 23 year-old teacher drive it iys just sad they should just make up and both say IM SORRY they should just say it for there kids and just think about there kids
Jon & Kate, You two have promised to be in this for the long haul, your kids did not choose this life. It’s up to the two of you to make this work for them no matter what it takes. Jon, if you were fooling around, shame of you, you should know better. Kate, you do not need to go all over the States to push your books, to “Hell” with it. If it means the family being together then stop this now.If the books are that good then the word will get out there without you being absent from the family. You say your kids are the most important thing in the world to you, then stay home with them.What about Jon, isn’t he important to you. He used to be.You do not hollow out to him ever, especially in public, and you do not talk to him like he’s some stupid hired help.That’s what it sounds like.
Listen folks,I love the show, the kids and the two of you, but you have to work on your relationship, have courtesy and kindness for each other, after all it did start with the two of you. You would not have the 8 kids if you didn’t have each other. Through good times and the bad times it is worth saving. Don’t, do not give up. Throw all your prayers up to the Lord, sincerely giving your heart over to Him and He will see you through this. There are so many people that have giving of their time to help you with the kids, they were so generous in giving their love and support to you and even now when you need help their out there to lend you a hand. You owe them, your kids, and most important, You Jon, You Kate,need to step back and look at what you have, 8 loving, healthy, happy kids, but most important you need to give each other YOUR HEART again and build your feelings for each once more.Be patient, be kind, be giving, and the rest will come if you truly work at it.It might mean that giving up the show to strengthen your marriage and truly be a family again.
Good luck to the both of you and give it all you have.
I’ve watched every show. I see Kate going hard on Jon, BUT, if he was more responsible with the kids I don’t think she’d have to. Men generally have a problem being responsible anyway. Someone wrote in a blog somewhere ‘Since everything has happened, Kate has went on and made a career for herself, what has Jon done?’. I think that shows who really takes care of those kids financially, emotionally, spiritually, morally, RESPONSIBLY. Plus, if your spouse is doing something to you that you don’t like and feel they will not stop, do the responsible thing and LEAVE. DONT grab onto a scape-goat, demoralize yourself, set a horrible example for your kids(who look to you for guidance on how to be) and CHEAT. Its not fair to your kids, spouse, or the person with whom you’re cheating – who you make feel ALOT more special than you really believe they are and that they are. CHEATING SPREADS STD’s, his kids use the bathroom behind him. Imagine he contracted Mono, genital herpes/warts, etc. from one of these girls.
Can’t believe I am even writing on this page or looking it up but I have to say – I caught the show a few times in the beginning and my first impression was that he was a real prick. Happen to be home right now for reasons beyond my control and caught her on the View talking about how she needs the money and that’s why she continues to work. Someone made the remark about how much is really enough and she basically said that it is never enough and when one of the hosts replied, well you’re certainly paid enough she remarked “is it EVER enough?” All she did was have a pile of kids and get a show – she is not a humanitarian or someone who enriches the world. I cannot handle her sense of entitlement. I am a woman who supports other women and feels that we are all sisters under the skin but she really gets my goat! I hate writing this because it shows how caught up in the minutia of crap that I really am. May the Lord help and guide me.
I’m the most easy going person in the world.. but when my husband doesn’t lift a finger to help w/ the kids ( takes 2 to make a baby- or 8) come on now. I’d be a bitch too!!! She wants to take good care of their things and raise there children w/ respect. If it wasn’t for her their home would be TRASHED and their kids would be total brats!