In response to her father’s endless ramblings about how Samantha Ronson is the devil:
My father obviously needs to be on medication to control his moods. He is out of line and his words show how much anger he has, and it’s dangerous and scary as it reminds me of how he treated my mother and I my whole childhood. He needs to be stopped. This is yet another reason why we aren’t speaking.
I am in a great place in life. I have overcome a lot and have been able to learn how to enjoy and appreciate my life in every way possible. I’m proud of myself for being able to make a change in the past year and a half.
My past is behind me, and that’s final. There’s nothing more to be said. All the false accusations that people try to make are simply because there’s no story when things are calm and good.
But they might as well let it go because their lies don’t affect me anymore. Samantha is not evil, I care for her very much and she’s a wonderful girl.
She loves me, as I do her.
I’ll say a few things here.
One: Good for you, Lindsay.
Two: You and Samantha are adorable, and I don’t think she’s evil, and I wish you all the luck in the world.
Three: I don’t believe your past is behind you. I think it’s just a matter of time. Again, I like Samantha, and I like the two of you together, but it’s obvious to anyone who’s watching that you’ve replaced your addiction to drugs and alcohol with an addiction to Samantha. You two are never apart. She visits you on all your sets. Always. You travel with her when she DJs. On the outside, this seems cute, but you guys are totally codependent. It’s an addiction as much as it is a relationship. When something about this cracks — and it will — you’ll be right back where you started. I’m just saying. Your father is an evil psychopath, but he’s correct in that you still haven’t really dealt with the underlying issues.
I am in complete and total agreement with you Beet, all she has done is replaced an issue with a person.
I agree beet!
But i want more more Rohan :)
I’m not gonna lie, but I completely agree with you, Beet! Granted, it’s healthier than cocaine there’s still a danger to being so dependent on another person. And this isn’t a situation that’s specifically unique to Lindsay Lohan. A LOT of people are dependent on their significant others in a way thats completely unhealthy. Granted, this could just be the honeymoon phase.
But cheers to them till the end, regardless!
Whilst I do agree with you beet, I do have to wonder whether all that ‘stuff’ (cocaine addition) is actually behind her, or she just has a better way of hiding it than before.
I don’t know.. just a theory I have..
Reading that you’d think Beet was a personal friend of theirs.
Man, I am sooooooo tired of their lesbian bullshit.
I hope Hohan’s dad grabs their two-in-one Slinky Dildo and beats the piss out of them.
Bitch… I mean Beet… I think you should posting shit on some worthless tramp that no one gives a fuck about.
dude, i’m not so sure beet. i mean maybe she still has issues, but just because you’re with you’re significant other pretty much 24/7 doesn’t mean you have a problem…but then again, maybe i’m not totally aware of how much time they spend together…i don’t stalk them…but I’m just saying from someone who loves her significant other tremendously and spends a lot of time with him…idk
I don’t think Linsay Lohan reads your site beet
HAHAHAHAHA….
Bitch I mean Beet ….HAHAHAHAHA
Someone cracks me up…. I’m not saying who… but someone.
(omg… a little pee came out)
I thought so too! This is a classic example of an addict continuing to be an addict whilst fooling everyone else!
The same way dyslexics find ways for other people to read for them, addicts find ways to get their fix without it appearing to be unhealthy.
Who knows what sort of behavior she’ll resort to after this whole Samantha thing doesn’t work out.
With any luck, Lezzlo HoHan will resort to suicide. The day she dies is the day I’ll start believing in god.
ohmygod i love daily lohan..
but fuck this.. who the fuck are we to say that anything her abusive dad said was right… he clearly needs meds ( ..and a muzzle.) if she needs relationship advice she should get it from a much more loving (and sane) place.
People who have addictions will always struggle. .. and yes most addictive behaviors/attitudes transfer to something else..
but i’d rather she be “addicted” to sam… as you guys are saying.
… shes obviously getting healthier and trying to deal with her family issues. (which will be a life long struggle.) How do we know how she will react when they have relationship issues? ..and i gotta say.. a lot of couples that seem “joined-at-the-hip” in their early years.. stay together. They become a family unit.
fucking ease up on her already.. and let the girls be happy for a while.
…people in glass houses…
is it just me or does Lindsey look like this lost weight? maybe even a bit too much…..
I don’t know about this “diagnosis.” Lindsay is doing great. People in love spend time together. Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt do it, they’re not labeled codependent.
well, whatever.. her addiction to Samantha won’t cause fatal car accidents like her last addiction.. now the Paprazzi following them around obsessively might, but hey people can’t live and breathe without seeing pics of these two vajayjay lovers swooning all over each other, so for all the people the paps run off the road, theyre helping so many others.
I agree with anonymous….just because she is happy doesn’t mean she is dysfunctional.
Why thank you doctor.
Addiction or cute attachment to Sam – name it what you like, we don’t have to diagnose in order to ascertain that Lindsay has stabilized as a result of this constant companionship.
But her pre-Sam history reflects serious behavioral problems, bad judgment calls, and substance abuse, likely in part as result of the chaos and instability she suffered in her childhood home. (Anybody watch ‘Confessions of a Broken Heart’ lately?) It is a statistical non-happening that someone with previous, serious, long-standing substance abuse issues just starts chilling out with a couple of glasses of champagne at night, as Lindsay has admitted doing.
Problem not solved.
Also, while we’re at it and Lindsay is blogging happy birthday messages to ‘Mummy’ and saying how much Ali makes her smile – did Lindsay COMPLETELY MISS Ali calling the rumors of her and Sam dating ‘disgusting’ and her mother calling them ‘ridiculous’ all over national television when they were making the promo rounds for Living Lohan?!?! Beet, how have you not elucidated this story??
I love seeing Lindsay and Sam so happy together. Most new couples who are ‘in love’ are inseparable. It’s called the honeymoon phase. I hope Lindsay and Sam have a long honeymoon. Reality will intrude soon enough. As for Beet’s analysis, I suppose it is valid enough, but I get so sick of Dr. Phil pop psychology. Do you guys have any idea what it means for a girl with the kind of childhood Lindsay endured to trust that someone genuinely loves her?
Give her break beet! People are always on her for something, now it’s that she spending too much time with her girl.. ..she deserves to be happy without people picking her apart. And even if true the codependent Lindsay is much improved on the trainwreck version. And seriously who uses Michael Lohan to back up their theory. I know you guys need to find an angle, but really that was kind of disappointing.
their outfits are both super cute in this photo… i actually like what theyre both wearing!
I think everyone is on their side.
I doubt Michael Lohan would be saying those things if she was with a boy.I don’t think his issue with Sam really is “codepency”..I mean his comments reak of barely disguised homophobia. It’s kind of disgusting really that he continues to get a platform for his hatefullness, and I feel quite sad for Lindsay really as she has had to endure this psycho for most of her life and that that’s very likely is the cause to some of her problems.